Sharron Salin: they are girls?
Arden Strachn: This kind of question though comes from someone assuming it's real, and they are hoping you will confirm it is with their question. It's a risky question! What if the opposite happens? What if the person really is wearing a wig? I don't think the asker would have hoped that would have been the case, they just didn't think it through. Not everyone is comfortable in wearing a wig so being called out can be embarrassing (that's the risky part, embarrassing the person you hoped to be complimenting after they confirmed it wasn't a wig......but this time it was).I've been asked if my hair is real most of my life, it doesn't feel rude perhaps only because my hair is real. But, it's as I said above. I think your analogy to implants does work. People are more sensitive to some examples than others, mostly because they haven't thought about the other ones very much (your question about hair being real is one of those underthought ! about examples I think)."I feel like its rude when people ask, it's like they're thinking i'm wearing a wig when I'm not" I don't agree with this logic, "it's rude because they thought wrong" basically, right? Doesn't make sense to me. It's rude because it's a personal question that can be embarrassing, but it's not rude because they were wrong, that's irrelevant.
Caleb Chapman: more info would help.....Dude, If i ask you what acting weird is to you, you probably say it is something not normal to do, and then i'll ask you what normal is to you, and then you might say normal is the same thing that everybody else does, and then i'll say everybody else doesn't do the same thing because everybody is unique! Those girls either probably have some crush on you, or there is something wrong with them, or it may be that you just don't know or aren't familiar with how girls act.like i said, more info would've helped.......Show more
Matt Gerdeman: @saucy mix, apparently you! 've been thumbed down quite a lot, you came here and attacked ! me first, only someone who has a degenerate mindset would go on here and start cussing someone else out. Go suck a dick you hoehag.
Hope Lundmark: A guy that shaves all of his body hair is creepy and mannequin-like.But if a guy just sort of keeps his body hair in check that's nice and it shows they take care of themselves. So don't shave, just trim. And also never pluck your eyebrows (except in the middle if you have a uni), it makes you look feminine. Just putting that out there.
Derrick Smsith: This is not an etiquette question.
Shon Almquist: casue they r weird nawmeen go wit da flow
Heidy Fujikake: oh and this is the etiquette section, people will ask questions like this dipshit
Jonathon Labonne: Because they are intimidated by weirdos like you
Stanton Degregorio: saucy minx, Why don't you STFU grow the hell up and get a life, don't answer my question if you're just going to troll around and attack someone you don't even know.
N! infa Aronica: People would go up to me and ask me if my hair is real, my hair is real and i have long hair. I feel like its rude when people ask, it's like they're thinking i'm wearing a wig when I'm not. Do you think its rude, would you get offended? I get asked this often. Wouldn't that be the same as asking if your boobs are fake?
Ayesha Genova: @Bent Snowman i agree with you, I wasn't saying that its rude because they were wrong but its rude because it's a personal thing and yes, it is also embarrassing. I don't think those people meant harm in asking or at least, I hope not.
Monroe Rainey: Please give some EXAMPLES of the "Wierd behavior" of the girls at your school. This question can't be answered unles you tell other people what the heck you are talking about ALSO use correct Grammar min the wording of your Question. I think your question should read "Why DO girls at my school act wierd ?use this fore of question when you are talking about MORE than O! NE girl Or, if you are only talking about just a single girl then ask ! "Why does (insert name) at my School act so wierdly ?) and then tell us about the so called "wierd" behavior...Show more
Peggy Sandefer: I do think its rude because its like they're trying to say your hair's not real and it only looks good because its fake or something and this is someone who i don't even know, i i personally think its rude to go up to someone you don't know to comment on the way they look. To me, these comments are similar to asking if someone got plastic surgery or something..
Gene Debell: thanks everyone for sharing :)
Ilana Gaster: Well, alot of people seem to be wearing extensions these day, so the fact that your hair is actually real may be quite unusual.Treat it as a compliment. In other times, it would be a rude question to ask, but these days, it's simply out of wonder that yours is so nice.
Porfirio Gartland: Define "weird." Based on the information I've been given, I infer that you consider all girls at your school to be! weird and that you are a boy. Most boys consider girls "weird" because girls are different from boys and thus behave differently. It may please you to know that girls consider boys to be "weird."
Autumn Vacio: It is so confusing! I am a Chinese immigrant. Although Americans are great at respecting the feelings of others, sometimes it is frustrating when I want to hear truths. Us Chinese do care about the feelings of other people, but we prefer to tell the truth directly if asked, since we believe that it benefits others more that it will ever hurt; which means if I want to know the answers on what others think of me, they would tell me what they think without hesitation, something I have taken for granted for years in China. Here, people always sugar coat everything, so much that I cannot see reality. I knew that they do not want to hurt my feelings, and I am thankful for their caring, but it is very frustrating to hear these things when my life depends on the trut! h.For example, I am a high school senior who is doing college essay rig! ht now. One day I asked my English teacher "is it rare enough for an immigrant to go to honors English after three years in America, that it can be an accomplishment that will impress the U.C. schools." She said yes. I asked many other friends and teachers, their answers are same. So I decided to write the experience of me going to honors English after three years in America without any English background as my personal statement essay. Then, at the start of November, just before I submit my application, I let a Korean-American teacher read the essay I wrote; what she told me after had shocked me. She told me, that she alone, knew tens of students each year, who have the same if not less years of being in America, also are in honors English. Translation: U.C. schools, especially L.A. and Berkeley, will not find my "accomplishment" slight impressive. They will not consider accepting me for this, as it is so common among students. That Korean American teacher is just one teac! her, and she knew tens each year, I can imagine that there are tens, if not hundreds, of thousands of students who are either like me or are better than me. This is not impressive at allSo, I ended up rewriting my personal statement, in the middle of November, knowing that the deadline is almost here...I knew that I cannot be mad with my teachers and friends because they meant well, but I cannot afford this kind of errors happens to me again. Imagine what happens if I did not know that Korean teacher. This inconvenience goes on with my life too. Last year, annoyed by me greatly, my friend told our teacher to tell me stop looking at his grade. Then I found out that it is wrong to see other people's grades without their approval. I did not want to annoy anyone either; if someone had told me earlier, I would have stopped immediately and apologize. But, for two years of being in America, nobody had told me anything about it.I knew that America is a country whose people act poli! tely with each other, and I am thankful that I had moved here. But plea! se tell me what should I do if I want to hear the real truth from others? Especially if they think that the truth would hurt my feelings? ...Show more
Rana Rudell: Usually your closet friend will tell you the truth but otherwise we all tell white lies to keep from hurting others feelings and to aviod confrontation. I wish I was more honest with people and myself. I wish everyone was. I think the world would be a better place.
Tyler Burkman: Yes it is rude and it would be the same as asking if someone has implants....
Janean Guz: hormones
Wilbert Shellgren: if the act weird around u they might have a crush on u
Elfreda Grossen: thanks everyone for sharing :)
Stanton Villao: And what should I say back next time? I've never been mean or nasty about it, i always smiled and politely answered back..
Bethanie Menden: It's a compliment. That means it looks too good to be true :)
Aldo Decurtis: ALL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENTSome like a guy ! with hair. Others like the hairless look. Depends on the woman.But I guarantee if you are extremely hairy with back hair and everything that no woman will find that attractive.I keep my body hair, but I trim it to keep it from getting out of control and I have my back waxed.Also ignore the previous chick that says not to pluck your eyebrows except in the middle. Some guys, like myself, have very bushy eyebrows that you have to pluck to keep from looking like giant fuzzy caterpillars....Show more
Hilma Pestano: Ah! Had the right comparable factor happen to me in intense college with a guy. might act like a bully around his acquaintances and then be the suitable buddy in the international at school. i think that replaced right into a vogue to be commonplace together with his acquaintances (act brave?) God is conscious. I confronted him and it ended suitable there. do no longer confront in front of her acquaintances, yet do tell her it quite is hurting you and you're que! stioning why she does that. ...sturdy success....Show more
Dulcie! Edis: Arm-pit hair is ok, but chest hair is gross..
Erica Bottaro: Sad but true there isn't much you can do. We have been programmed to lie to avoid confrontation and hurting other's feelings. I always tell the truth and it makes people mad. There are few people who will tell you the real truth, sorry.
Jammie Taddei: They're probably just looking for attention.
Luis Mellon: how am i supposed to know if ur not giving me any info.... im no mind reader....
Rosio Pasculli: Depends on what their doing... probably just want the guys' attention
Josefine Weekey: 2 Words - Vaginal bleeding.
Merna Fauset: what do you mean by weird?everybody acts *weird* from time to time.
Curt Broadhead: Maybe it's because you use improper grammar.
Clemente Schoeck: Wow, I wish I would be asked that about my thin, lifeless hair. No one would for sure. I do wear hairpieces at times to make my hair look fuller. I think they look real, but I worry I ma! ybe fooling myself. I get annoyed I even have to wear a hairpiece & just wish I'd been given a good thick full head of hair. Take it as a compliment....but to answer your question it is really rude for someone to ask. I have been asked if my breast are real & they are, but I'm amazed anyone would ask. I wouldn't ask someone these kinds of questions. I told one lady I thought her hair was really nice & I was shocked when she said it was a wig....Show more
Vita Moodie: There must be something about the way you wear your hair that suggests that it's not real. Just say, "It's real all right. I have to get it cut and styled every once in a while."
Dana Russian: Personally I would find it funny instead. Anyway I think they want to know if you have extensions and it is not rude.
Justin Casten: Because you are a child,and you go to a school with other children there.
Janeen Perona: because you don't understand them and maybe they don't want to get along wi! th you.. ?
Lynn Hollars: Your situation is unfortunate. I agree ! that a true friend will tell you the truth. And also that truth between friends isn't normally hurtful. Most of the people told you that your achievement is exceptional. One told you no. It sounds like you were looking for someone who would validate your insecure feelings and you finally found them. I don't know whether most of the people you talked to "sugar coated" the truth. I think what you did is a great achievement but I'm not UCLA or Berkley and I don't know how you "measure up" to others in your situation. If you still have your original essay consider submitting it. It probably is the most accurate of how you perceive things. Do you want to tell the truth or do you want to tell people what you think they want to hear?I wish you luck....Show more
Idell Syed: Ask them to please tell you honestly and not to patronize you.
Sammy Tabatt: so i understand that most women do not like really hairy guys, so my question is, do women like guys who shave/! trim their arm-pit hair or no? what about chest hair?what are your opinions girls?